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Their faces have the same distant look and tell the same story as orphaned children all over the world. 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It was touching to watch Oprah and her sister Patricia. http://mljadoptions.com/articles/167.mlj MLJ was honored to host a delegate from IHNFA and introduce our new friends to the Secretary of State, DCS, adoptive parents, clients, ISI, and many others. http://mljadoptions.com/articles/166.mlj A client shares how her family started out overwhelmed, but managed the task, learned about themselves, and (almost) enjoyed the process. http://mljadoptions.com/articles/165.mlj It is ok to seek help even if there is not a diagnosable disorder. 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We hope you can join us for a welcome reception on January 20th. http://mljadoptions.com/articles/160.mlj Proceeds from the 5K run on April 2nd will go towards the Women for Women International Congo program. 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Brooke describes the plight of the older orphan and those that age out of orphanages. http://mljadoptions.com/articles/99.mlj Rick shares how his ideas about becoming a father and about his role as a father have changed, including the spiritual understanding he has found along the way. http://mljadoptions.com/articles/98.mlj Although other agencies may be discontinuing adoptions from DRCongo due to a strike at the Congolese Passport office, we are not experiencing changes or delays. http://mljadoptions.com/articles/97.mlj Answering common questions, concerns, and misunderstandings regarding adopting from the Democratic Republic of Congo. http://mljadoptions.com/articles/96.mlj Clients, staff, & supporters will be running a 5k in October to raise money for the women of Congo and to create a more hopeful future for those children not adopted. 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Thank you from MLJ! http://mljadoptions.com/articles/63.mlj Guest blogger Tony Stewart shares the poetry his heart was inspired to write while visiting orphanages in Nicaragua and seeing the beautiful hearts of the orphaned children. http://mljadoptions.com/articles/62.mlj Guest blogger Tony Stewart shares how he was touched by visiting orphanages in Nicaragua and urges you to consider how you can make a difference in the life of a child. http://mljadoptions.com/articles/61.mlj Guest blogger Tony Stewart shares about his experience visiting orphanages in Nicaragua and how it was different than he had expected. http://mljadoptions.com/articles/60.mlj After seeing the great need for socks, hats, and gloves at the orphanages in Ukraine, we will be collecting donations to send to them for their Christmas celebration in January. http://mljadoptions.com/articles/59.mlj Today's guest blogger author Tara Michener promotes diversity and inclusion. 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