Blog

18
Jan

Trauma and the Brain: What It Means for Adoption

The National Child Traumatic Stress Network defines trauma as something that may occur when a child feels intensely threatened by an event in which he or she is involved or witnesses, and it is often followed by serious injury or harm (National Child Traumatic Stress Network, 2005). Being separated from one’s birth family, culture of ...
12
Jan

Racism in the News

Perhaps you haven’t heard about the incident at a New York City Papa John’s restaurant. A customer was treated to a lot more than her pepperoni pizza Friday evening, and she shared it via Twitter. Minhee Cho was referred to as “lady chinky eyes” by a Papa John’s employee. The racial slur was at the ...
5
Jan

Shifting Perspectives in Adoption

Since my husband and I first began our adoption journey 12 years ago, many restrictions, changes and shutdowns have reshaped the adoption landscape. Today, there are fewer large “sending” countries open such as China, Guatemala, Ethiopia and Russia and more and more obscure countries emerging like Congo (DRC), Nicaragua, and Samoa. Daily the number of ...
4
Jan

Things

My husband and I are currently in the process of swapping rooms around in our house. Of course, with moving things around, comes the process of going through and throwing things away. My husband is very much a "thrower" and I am very much a "saver". I am also an adoptee. As I was watching ...
30
Dec

Ukrainian Christmas/New Year Traditions

When I think of Christmas traditions images of hanging stockings, lighting the tree, and eating holiday ham fill my head. Other countries, however, have different Christmas customs. In Ukraine, Christmas is celebrated on January 7th instead of the traditional December 25th, due to a change in the calendar that was in use over 2000 years ...
29
Dec

New Years Traditions around the World

For us in the United States, we are accustomed to ringing in the New Year by counting down the seconds, watching the ball drop in Times Square, partying, toasting and kissing at midnight. In Central and South America, however, they have different things on their minds on New Year’s Eve, such as the color of ...
28
Dec

Traditions in the Bulgarian New Year

All across Eastern Europe, people welcome the new year with customs and special foods thought to bring prosperity and good luck. Bulgaria is no exception. New Years is a huge celebration for Bulgarians, it may even be a larger and more anticipated celebration than Christmas! This is because in Communist times the religious celebration of ...
27
Dec

The Importance Of Choosing The Right Agency

When we first began our adoption journey, we were drawn to the idea of a pilot program to expand our family, paving the way for future adoptive families. The first agency we chose was close to our home and developing a program in a country that was a perfect fit. Something didn’t feel quite right, ...
21
Dec

Santa Claus Around the World

In the United States, we know Santa Claus as the jolly old man with the big belly and a long, white beard. He lives in the North Pole with Mrs. Claus and the toy-making elves. Every year on Christmas Eve, he hitches his eight reindeer to his sleigh full of presents, and delivers the presents ...
20
Dec

Christmas in Honduras

Christmas is one of the largest celebrations in Honduras. Much of the country celebrates Christmas, as an estimated 97% of the population is Catholic. For Hondurans, like Americans, Christmas is a time of both religious significance and a time to celebrate with family and friends. Christmas is celebrated on December 24th, though the parties and ...
14
Dec

Christmas Traditions in Mexico

On the 16th of December, the Christmas celebration in Calnali, Hidalgo Mexico begins. People believe that on this day, Mary and Joseph started their journey to the Posadas (inns) in Bethlehem, and in Calnali they reenact this journey with religious celebrations. The Christmas holiday is from December 16th until the 24th, making eight nights of ...
13
Dec

An Extra Place at the Table

As the Christmas holiday is closing in, it is a time of mixed blessings for adoptive families. Many of us realize so clearly how very blessed we are, and with that realization comes the reality of how many are out there that aren’t so fortunate. We think of our child, whom we have come to ...
12
Dec

Jillian Michaels Switches her Adoption from DRC to Haiti

As you may remember back in May, Jillian Michaels, former trainer for Biggest Loser, had announced that she had started the legal process to adopt a child from the Democratic Republic of Congo. Jillian explained that it was a pilot adoption program in Congo and she had commented, “I’m terrified that [the country] will close, ...
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